According to the update, he hasn't been arrested and is just answering questions. I think it'll be interesting to see what happens in situation like this, especially if no arrest is forthcoming and/or he denies the accusation. The Peterson and Rice cases were pretty cut and dry since in both cases they admitted to having done what they were accused of and/or there was video available. In cases like that, I'm fine with the league being proactive in issuing punishment. But if whether or not the guy even did it is in dispute, that makes for a much murkier situation.
Absolutely agree. It's especially difficult to make a call since the Domestic Violence Industry keeps moving the goal posts and expanding the definition(s) of what "Domestic Violence" means. At our local police station, there's a poster that states that Domestic Violence can mean simply being "talked down to" or having someone say something about you that "makes you feel bad".
In most states, all someone has to do is tell an officer that he or she has been "battered" and the police MUST make an arrest. It's gotten that bad in this country. And why? The almighty dollar. Domestic Violence non-profits depend upon increased arrests in order to keep the money flowing in, to pay their salaries, run their shelters, etc. It's gotten to be big business, which is why the definitions keep expanding. Once the numbers start to drop off, you need to find a way to keep them going.
Now, having said all of that, I am NOT condoning, nor even trying to downplay real domestic violence, There is simply no excuse for it. But when women, especially, can be coached on what to say by attorneys in order to help their divorce proceedings, then you know how bad the thing has gotten. I can attest to what a good friend of mine went through. His wife was cheating on him and he found out. He was about to file divorce papers on her when she found out about it. She went to a local fitness center every day, so for a week (at least) she was bruising herself with hand weights and then claimed he was beating her. The cops arrested him, and she would have gotten away with it but for a couple of women at her gym who told the cops what they had seen. Eventually, SHE was arrested for making a false official claim, etc.
What I'm getting at is that while we have monsters like Rice and Petersen, there are also women out there who see an easy mark and a way to get a big fat paycheck off some football player, and who won't bat an eyelash when it comes to making up a false claim, etc. What with the current situation, this has all the halmarks of becoming a modern witch-hunt, with the press acting to incite the mob demanding they all be strung up.
So my advice is to act cautiously, and deliberately, because our society has become so PC that we're close to perverting our judicial system and ruining the lives of some innocent men just to make ourselves feel good.
Anyway, that's my take on things. I'll step off my soapbox now.