Dave,
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't begin to imagine what you are going through, but I pray that you and your kids will be strong and find comfort during this sad time.
I know what you mean about this place feeling like another family, and you are absolutely one of my favorite people on here. Because of your character and sense of humor you are one of the people that I've thought "I'd like to actually meet this guy." I don't know if that will mean much to you, but you should know that there are lots of people - even those that only know you on a sports fan website - that care about you.
Sincerely,
Tim S.