Oh, here we go. Big manly men don't cry, they just get angry so we can all appreciate their big manly manhood. Just FYI, I think that attitude is one of the reasons your gender pretty much drops down dead circa age 70. Just sayin'
Tom and Wes put more of themselves in this team than any of you guys chastising them from behind your keyboard. Save your tears for sad events? To them, it was a sad event. So sorry it doesn't meet your rigorous standards of "funeral or bust". Also, when my grandfather died he was 94 and had been suffering from Alzheimer's. People were actually happy.