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Originally Posted by patsfan13
I see no quotes from Maguire talking about banning porn for adults?
They link to her writing but no quotes of her attitude towards porn for adults.
I presume she doens't want porn in the classroom, hopefully you don't object to that.
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Nope. Evidently she's a simple advocate of abstinence-only education, and general supporter of the evangelical agenda, but is a member of the pornography-consuming evangelical wing of the Republican party.
Just your basic porn-writing home-schooling public-school-board-chairing, sex-education opposing, abstinence-only-promoting education professional.
No conflict there.
What precisely does one advocate, where all public school kids must learn to abstain from sex until marriage -- while writing steaming fiction about extra-marital sex? Is it in fact the cause of all the world's ills, or a whole lotta fun?
That's really unfair as we all know. All of us hold and espouse sexual attitudes. All of us also have our own private lives. Finally, all of us interact to some degree or another with the rest of us.
Maguire is just such a person. Were she to say "you know, people should be taught how to have safer sex, because we all know that things happen, that people desire sex, and that sex is a natural part of our humanity that inconveniently begins to feel very compelling several years before we are truly able to deal with the consequences of our actions, while we are still teens," then it would make sense that her writing depicts extramarital sex as enjoyable and a natural part of life.
Her writing, however, is in contradiction to her actions, which assume that an adult urging abstinence will keep a teen from having sex.
There's no shame in writing erotica, and there's only ineptitude in urging abstinence-only education. Is there a conflict if one is doing both? I think so. I think abstinence-only education depends on the notion that morality, not results, should be the driver of public policy. The results achieved by abstinence-only education do not validate the practice.
Her own individual morality appears to be that there is nothing truly wrong with at least writing and reading about sex for pleasure without regard to marital status... and she is certainly not only right in this perspective, but also entitled to hold this perspective even if it is wrong.
At most we can say she likes to think about it and get others to think about it; yet she takes a stance that young people should
not think about it, and that those who are
doing it should not be taught to do it more safely.
Not quite the level of hypocrisy you're seeking, I realize. Me, I'd have a problem with someone who writes all about extramarital sex urging that we all ignore the possibility of disease transmission and unwanted pregnancy with the idiotic explanation that all you have to do is not have the kind of sex I love to write about.
But I may differ from you in the solution to such a dilemma: To me it makes sense that she writes about sex for pleasure because sex does feel good. It's what people really do, and they get very happy sometimes when they do it. It's even better when you get to fantasize the outcomes, where everything is perfect. That's fine, in fact, healthy even.
But when you realize that, you should also realize that in the real world there ARE consequences. Knowing that at the age of puberty we get exponentially more interested in sex, and knowing and treating as healthy the sex drive itself, an educator should understand (if anybody does) that teens will be interested just as adults are. And an educator should recognize across the society what the outcome of that interest will be: teens having sex, getting pregnant, and spreading communicable diseases.
You can provide better outcomes for more people by teaching them how to have sex more safely. You cannot do this through abstinence-only education, if measured by outcomes. Kids who get abstinence-only education have inferior outcomes to those who are taught, for example, the benefits of birth control and condoms.
Shouldn't she get this, especially if by her own actions we realize that she recognizes the power of the sex urge for pleasure, rather than as an expression of a marriage vow? Whether one is married or single, whether one has children or not, sex feels good, and that's why you have it. She knows this, as witnessed by her writing.
It would seem it would be reflected in her policy advocacy as well.
But then, that is policy for the masses, not her own kids - who are home-schooled.
PFnV