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Originally Posted by NEPatriot
Why don't I help you out?
1-How can you claim that your gay rights are violated when you can vote and do everything that normal people do?
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Discrimination against gays is legal in many parts of the country. That means you can deny someone a job or an apartment because they are gay. There are many other examples of discrimination as well.
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Originally Posted by NEPatriot
2- A marriage license is not considered to be everybody's rights. You have to meet the requirement if you want one. If a straight single person can't have it, does it mean that his rights are violated? the answer is NO.
A man + a woman = a MARRIAGE LICENSE.
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It's not everyone's right, but that's changing. Just as interracial marriage was considered unnatural and was illegal in many states, the same is true for gays. But, as gays win more acceptance, they will win more rights. Marriage rights (which I have) provides certain protections in terms of estate and hospital visitation rights, and additional protection for couples with kids, and many gay couples have children.
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You know the rule but ignore it by doing your own thing. Why did you lie about your rights VIOLATION?
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The rules are changing. Social conservatives rarely win battles against social liberals. That has been true pretty much since the founding of our nation.
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You have lived with your parner for 27 years WITHOUT having a 'license marriage' and the support of the majority people. I'm sure that you will be FINE for the rest of your life.
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Especially, now that we're married.
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3- Nobody forces you to live the way they want you to live. In the return, don't force the rest of us to accept your 'gay' marriage.
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You don't have to accept it, but it's important that the legal institutions do to protect my rights with regard to my estate, health care, and benefits.
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4- Whose fault is it that you are in 'second class' citizen? YOU. If you don't like to loose, don't play the game.
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Actually, I think the likes of you have become second class citizens because your views are outdated and have less and less relevance with the passing of time. But, I'm glad you called me a second class citizen. That attitude underscores the need for gay activism, to prevent pushback from bigots.
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This is not about 'old' and 'new'. The rules have been around for over 100 years and we are NOT going to CHANGE them because of YOU. If i can follow the rules and live responsibly, WHY CAN YOU NOT do it? There is no good excuse for BREAKING the rule.
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The rule is old and changing. That's the nature of modern society. Many rules have been revised or changed over the years.
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You need to be more mature and responsible for your own action and do not expect any special treatment or 'exception' from the rest of us when you 'fck' up.
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I expect equal rights, and will continue to do my part to support that struggle. In the last 40 years, gays have made great strides in wiping out small mindedness and intolerance, but I see there's still work to do.
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What do you call a group of people who don't live WITHIN the rules? What do you say about an activity that is NOT considered to be 'normal'?
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I think today, gay is considered more normal than bigotry and intolerance.
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If it means that you CAN DO WHATEVER YOU want WITHOUT having any consideration or respect to your fellow citizens and the rules, don't complain when you are treated differently.
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I have great respect for my fellow citizen, but do not favor special rights (such as marriage) for straight people. Why there are people like you who think you're entitled to special rights that gay people can't have is simply a carryover from 19th century thinking.
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Don't even come back here and tell me about 'rights' when you don't give a ***** about others' rights.
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I support equal rights for all. You don't.